Well I know I'm meant to sit hear and write one big descriptive (most likely exaggerated or false) bunch of clichés that girls want to hear but that probably wouldn't be the real me. Well yes I have hit the big 40 and just about everyone I spoke to about joining internet dating all said to lie about my age, well that is not who I am either. I am who I am, and what you see is what you get. (I know they are clichés, but they are true) I have confidence in saying that I believe that most people who know me would agree with me when I say “I am a very genuine, kind, trustworthy, caring, and very empathetic person, whose happiness comes from making other people happy (those who deserve it)”. I don't play mind games (be honest with me, trust me, and let me be myself and you will get more back in return than you ever hoped for from the playing of any mind games). I’m a very deep thinker when I need to be but I really see myself as a guy that has heaps of fun the rest of the time. However, I would love to be able to share my fun and myself with someone who gets me and appreciates who I am. The journey so far has been a great adventure. I would say my life is different in many aspects from other 40 YO. My life has been sport and music. These professions have allowed me the freedom to study for a very long time and I really do feel I have found my calling in life with my current course and upon completion I look forward to joining what society deems “the normal professions” and embracing the next chapter in my life in a profession that allows me to help people less fortunate than I and struggle with mental heath. But, something is missing in my life and that is why I’m here.