After getting into the groove repeatedly and for an extended time period, other problems will arise for established couples. These are the kinds of nitpicky things that come up after you've been together long enough to stop being polite. So, here come some tips on having better sex – and life.
It's the duty of every sexually active member of society to be prepared. If you're at your partner's home, your host should have a store of condoms on hand, and you should also have a few with you. One partner certainly may opt for another method of birth control, but neither partner should balk at the suggestion or using condoms in addition to the other method, for protection against both pregnancy and STDs.
Ideally, shaving close would be a skill that every father would pass on to his son, but this isn't always the case. And sometimes the skill was passed on, but the son is too interested in working his slacker/hipster/cool-guy look that he opts not to exercise his inherited knowledge. In any case, it is the victim who suffers most. This stubble-burned partner is well within her rights to take some dramatic defensive steps.
Shave Before…
• The next time your partner attempts to kiss you, give him a "No, no, no," and hold your hand up so that your palm greets his approaching mouth.
• When he looks at you quizzically, point out the patches of dry skin around your mouth.
• Reinforce the gesture by verbalizing the problem: "If you want to kiss, you have to shave. Your stubble is drying out my skin."
• Hand him the can of shaving cream and the five-blade razors you kindly purchased for him just that afternoon.
• Point him toward the bathroom, and remind him to use warm water and not to shave against the grain.
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